June 2021

Oral Sex is Sex: Over 20 Oral Sex Tips to Make It the Ultimate Main Event

26/06/2021
Oral sex is sex. It’s not an alternative. It’s not “sex-lite.” It need not be relegated to foreplay. For many of us, oral sex is the main event and ultimate indulgence. If you’re...

6 Different Oral Sex Positions Every Vulva-Owner Should Experience, According to a Sexologist

25/06/2021
For some vulva-owners, oral sex functions mostly as an A+ sexual appetizer. For others, it’s the dessert you treat yourself to because you didn’t really enjoy the dinner enough to...

Normalise Using Lube: Why Your GYN Wants You to Talk About Lube Every Chance You Get!

23/06/2021
I have to be honest – I’m not sure how or why using lube became taboo or difficult to talk about. But it is something that comes up time and time again with my patients, and...

What Percentage of the Population is LGBTIQ?

19/06/2021
If you were asked to estimate the percentage of people who are LGBTIQ, what would you say? Over the last few decades, I’ve included this question on surveys and have found that...

Mindful Masturbation: What is it – and how do I do it?

18/06/2021
I hear you!! Those three words in one sentence can be perplexing. So, let’s break it down. Mindful Masturbation is the practice of being present...

How We’re Celebrating Pride 2021 with Our Community

17/06/2021
Pride (n.):  A feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one’s own achievements, the achievements of those with whom one is closely associated, or from qualitie...

How Do I Stop a Sexting Relationship?

16/06/2021
Ending things is never an easy thing to do. There are lots of reasons that it has to end, though. Sometimes you just need to move on. Other times circumstances dictate that things ...

The 8 Types of Orgasms You Can Experience, According to Experts

11/06/2021
What better use than all of this extra time at home than to explore all the different ways you can climax? If you find yourself more frequently wanting to wind down after a...

Fisting 101: Everything You’ve Wanted To Know, However Were Too Scared To Ask

05/06/2021
At first glance, the sexual act of fisting sounds like … a lot. And it is a lot. If you Google it, there’s nothing but pages of hardcore porn videos, which can be incredibly...

Science Says These Are the Best Songs To Have Sex To

04/06/2021
One of the upsides of sleeping with men who flip their records in the middle of sex (one of the only upsides) is that I know plenty of good songs to have sex to. They’ve...