If you're looking for some creative ways to spice up your sex life with other women, look no further than this list of the best lesbian sex positions.
And if you haven't had sex with a woman yet, get ready for some fun: "Those who engage in lesbian sex know that most people with vaginas need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm," says Wendasha Jenkins Hall, a sex educator who specializes in the well-being of women and femmes. "They know where the clitoris is and how to use it. Lesbian sex also allows for a customized sexual experience." Basically, whether you're a fan of penetrative sex, clitoral stimulation, or both, lesbian sex can make that happen for you.
But hey, everyone can use a little inspo when it comes to their sex lives, which is why I've compiled the 35 absolute best lesbian sex positions you need to try ASAP, all according to experts. Keep reading for positions, tips, and tricks that will help amp up your sex life. Trust me, your clit will thank you!
1. 69
"This is a tried and true position," says Jenkins Hall. "The 69 position allows both partners to give and receive clitoral stimulation simultaneously." If you need some more details, it goes a little like this: One of you lies on top of the other in an opposite-facing direction. That way, both of your mouths are riiight by each other's ~special spots~.
2. Lying 69
Pro tip: You can either switch up who's on top during your 69 sesh *or* both of you can stay on your sides for a lying 69 position, Jenkins Hall explains. This might be a little more comfortable if you don't like feeling the weight of someone's body on yours (you do you!) or vice versa.
3. Queening (Face Sitting)
"This position is basically the cowgirl done on your partner’s face," says Jenkins Hall. "It's great because it provides direct clitoral stimulation and you can focus on the pleasure you are receiving from your partner." If you're on top, you've also got the ability to control the speed, rhythm, and motion of your stimulation, always a plus.
4. Face Sitting, But Make It Role Play
"This position also works well with role-play, like naughty nurse or demanding dominatrix," Jenkins Hall explains. Picture it: You're on top and in complete control, feeling like the powerful queen that you are, or you're on the bottom and experiencing your partner get all kinds of pleasure from rubbing against your mouth and tongue. Both hot situations.
5. Reverse Face Sitting
Have your partner lay flat on their back (or lie on your back). Then, instead of doing queening as you normally would (with your clit facing toward their nose), turn around so you're booty-first. This gives them a whole new angle for mouth-to-vulva action.
6. Doggy Style, Baby
"Straight couples aren't the only ones who can enjoy doggy-style sex," Jenkins Hall says. "With a strap-on, two people with vaginas can also enjoy this position. It's great as the receiving partner can stimulate their nipple and clitoris with their fingers or a vibrator while being stroked from behind." Note: If you enjoy deep penetration, you'll probs love this one.
7. Get On All Fours
And no, we don't mean doggy style here. Have you or your partner get on all fours while the other one gives oral from behind, says Jess O’Reilly, sexpert, author, podcaster, and Astroglide's resident sexologist. This gives you a different kind of angle than you might be used to and offers easy access to your booty area, if that's what you're into.
8. The Stretch
This time, "have your partner slide underneath you while lying on their back," O'Reilly explains. You can stay on all fours, but "stretch your arms out in front and bring your bottom up for improved access." This way, your partner will be underneath you while you're on your hands and knees, providing a little bit of a different angle than approaching you from behind. Noted!
9. The Delegator
"Sit upright in a chair or on the edge of a bed with your legs spread wide," says O'Reilly. "Place a pillow under your feet and have your partner crawl between your legs. Lift your leg(s) up and wrap them around your partner’s neck and shoulders to adjust the angle and use your hips to steer them."
10. The High Riser
For this one, grab a pillow and put it under your head to support your neck. Then, "have your partner straddle your head or chest, facing your feet," O'Reilly explains. "They bend over and go to town. You can play with them from behind if the mood strikes." This position may seem a little wonky at first, but the angle will feel sooo good.
11. Grab Your Favourite Penetrative Toy
"Those who enjoy penetration can experiment with different types, shapes, and sizes when it comes to toys," says Jenkins Hall. Get out your stash of vibrators and pick one to use for this sex sesh. Have your partner move the vibrator in and out of your opening at whatever speed and motion you so desire. (Being on the receiving end of this one will be reeeal nice.)
12. Take The Vibrator To Your Nipples