Pegging has been growing in popularity and is an excellent complement to male chastity. In this post we’ll discuss what pegging is and why you should add it to your repertoire.
What Is Pegging?
Pegging sex involves using a strap-on dildo to penetrate your partner anally. Pegging is growing in popularity among heterosexual couples, with the female partner pentrating the male partner, but in reality, when using a strap-on for sex, either partner can penetrate the other regardless of gender, and a strap-on can even be used by a male to penetrate his femal partner vaginally.
Many female sex couples enjoy strap-on sex as it offers a way to experience both vaginal and anal penetration, and many men enjoy being pegged anally by their female partners, and some couples also use strap-on sex in conjunction with male chastity as a way to facilitate the keyholder being penetrated if the partner in chastity uses a special type of strap-on for sex which fits over their locked cock, thus allowing them to penetrate their partner, but without experiencing arousal in a way that would lead to orgasm.
Pegging, especially in male chastity relationships, can be intensely erotic. It further emphasizes the power dynamic between the couple practicing male chastity, and it can be a huge turn-on for the male partner as anal penetration, as mentioned in our post on butt plugs, stimulates a large number of nerve endings in addition to stimulating the prostate. This can often be enough to cause an orgasm on its own. I often find that I can orgasm from anal penetration, and a strap-on can bring about one of the most intense orgasm experiences possible.
Pegging — How To
When using a strap-on for sex, the partner doing the penetrating will wear a harness around their hips and legs which will support a dildo, which is strapped securely to the harness. Hence, the name strap-on.
Prior to penetration, all of the usual anal sex rules apply. It’s important to get the partner being penetrated warmed up by massaging their anus with lube, and to gently insert a finger or two to get their ass ready to receive.
Apply lube to the strap-on dildo extremely generously, and apply some extra lube to the anus. Then very gently, apply just a tiny amount of pressure with the tip of the strap-on to the anus. It’s absolutely essential here for the penetrating partner to read the receiving partner’s cues with regard to how quickly or slowly they’re ready to receive. Only insert a little bit at a time, and allow the bottom to control the pace. Communication is key!
Once the entire shaft of the strap-on is inserted, the penetrating partner can begin to gently thrust their hips to move the strap-on in and out of the bottom’s asshole. Again, go extremely slowly and don’t speed up until the partner on bottom gives a clear cue.
There are many pegging stories of the strap-on causing severe pain and discomfort, and honestly, there’s no need for that. Pegging with a strap-on should feel intensely arousing and is actually quite comfortable if done right, and especially if it’s not rushed.
Again, the most important takeaways, whether it’s your first time pegging or if you’re experienced, are to get the receiving partner’s ass warmed up, use way more lube than you’d ever expect, go very slowly, and communicate.
Benefits of Pegging
Pegging to Play with the Power Dynamic
As mentioned earlier, pegging is a great way to play around with power dynamics in the relationship. As a guy, it’s a huge turnon and a lot of fun to have a go at being the one being penetrated.
Prostate Stimulation from Pegging
Pegging is also an amazing way to stimulate all of the many nerve endings in the anus, and to stimulate the prostate enough to bring about an orgasm. Many men (myself included) are able to have an orgasm strictly from anal penetration, and it can often be even more intense than an orgasm from stimulating the penis.
Pegging and Male Chastity
As mentioned earlier, when the locked partner uses a special strap-on that fits over the male genitalia, pegging can be a great way for the partner in chastity to penetrate their keyholder. This way, a female keyholder doesn’t need to go without penetration while practicing male chastity with her partner. It can also feed into the power dynamic of the practice or male chastity by emphasizing the sexual humiliation experienced by the locked partner.
Deeper Connection through Communication
Using a strap-on, especially for anal penetration, necessitates open and fluid communication between partners. It also places the partner being penetrated in an extremely vulnerable position, which can serve to enhance feelings of intimacy through the shared experience.
Summary
In my opinion, there are few things more exciting than strap-on sex and pegging. It feels amazing and brings about a ton of intensely erotic and arousing sensations. I highly recommend all couples give pegging a try!
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