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Do children ruin your sex life?

15/08/2021
I have a very unpopular opinion about parenthood, and why it rarely coexists with good sex.  I’m going to come out and say something super controversial.  ...

How Do You Handle Mismatched Libidos

14/08/2021
New research shows it’s the woman with the higher libido more often than we think, but that there is a way to turn down sex without harming your union. “I’m...

Everything You Know About Sex Is Wrong

13/08/2021
True equality begins in the bedroom. If you’ve landed on this site, hopefully it’s because, like me, you’ve noticed there’s something fundamentally wrong with the way we...

The Psychology of Attraction & Flirting

06/08/2021
Why are we attracted to certain people, but not to others? What determines who’s hot and who’s not in our own eyes? In this article, I will help you to better understand the...

What We Could Have Learned in Sex Education

01/08/2021
If you went to a Catholic all-girls high school as I did, you probably didn’t learn anything about sex in school. If you had conservative parents as I did, you also likely didn’t l...

21 Expert Tips on How To Do a Striptease

30/07/2021
Are you curious about the art of undressing, but unsure how to do a striptease yourself? Well, you’re in the right place. Welcome to becoming the ultimate seducer! We’ve spoken...

Here Are Some Tips for Your First Time Having Anal Sex

29/07/2021
It is often said that you never forget your first time, but that rarely refers to your first time having anal sex.  Perhaps that is because for far too long, anal sex h...

I’m 26 – Why Is My Sex Drive So Low?

23/07/2021
Questions about what’s normal when it comes to sex are super common — I’d say, like, 90% of the time, when someone asks me a sex-related question, they’re really asking, “Am I...

Science Says These Are the Best Songs To Have Sex To

16/07/2021
One of the upsides of sleeping with men who flip their records in the middle of sex (one of the only upsides) is that I know plenty of good songs to have sex to. They’ve...

Light BDSM & Bondage Play Beginner’s Guide

14/07/2021
What comes to mind when you think of BDSM? Whips, chains, dog collars, and name-calling? Those can certainly apply, though there is far more to the scene than those...

Lubes To Use If You Need A Little Assistance In The Bedroom

14/07/2021
Ain't no shame in dabbling on a little lubricant before or during sex, so here are some options that people lube — I mean love... But to be honest, there are a lot of reasons...

7 Ways for Men to Last a Lot Longer in Bed

09/07/2021
Irrespective of whether you’re new to the game and looking to improve your skills, or consider yourself a sex aficionado, it’s more than likely that at some point you will or you...

How to Have a Healthy Threesome

09/07/2021
If you're one of the 89 percent of people who *want* to have a threesome, but don't know where to start, this guide can help. Ménage à trois, threeway, triad, groupsex,...

The A-Spot What it is, how to find it, and why you should be stimulating it.

07/07/2021
Yes.  You know the saying, “that hits the spot”? There’s a good chance the sex gods were thinking about one spot in particular when they created that phrase: the A-spot. Yes,...

Tips to Reach Orgasm for the LGBTIQ+ Community

05/07/2021
A few months ago, I wrote about the supposedly elusive female orgasm. While it is true that most people know very little about the female orgasm, even less is known about...