Relationships

The 3 Most Commonly Asked Questions, According to a Sexologist

21/09/2023
Every day, I receive questions about sex and relationships from curious folks. While I cannot answer all of them, I’ve selected the most common themes to give you a glimpse into...

Scheduling Sex Is a Good Idea, Actually

12/09/2023
Most things in life require planning. Why should sex be any different? The first time I tried scheduling sex, I typed “SEX” in all caps into my husband's calendar, not...

What To Do When You Want More Sex Than Your Partner

08/09/2023
If you’ve ever been in a long-term romantic relationship, odds are you’ve found that you and your partner weren’t always on the same page about sex. There were probably times when ...

Eleven Foursome Sex Positions That Everyone Will Enjoy, According to Sex Experts

19/08/2023
THREESOMES MAY GET all the mainstream glory when it comes to group sex, but why not add one more person to the mix? Yes, we’re talking about foursomes—a double-the-fun...

Do You Want More Sex? Doing Your Share of the Chores Can Help

19/08/2023
A recent research study suggests relationship equity may increase women's sexual desire. If the thought of your partner taking out the trash unprompted gets you hot under the...

What Is a Safe Word, and How Do You Use One During Sex?

18/08/2023
Here's why -    A simple "stop" might not cut it. Sex is hotter for everyone when all parties can relax knowing they'll stay inside their comfort zones. One way to...

Threesomes, Outdoor Sex, Domination, Oh My! Popular Fantasies, According to a Sexologist.

29/07/2023
In my work with couples around the world, three fantasies top the charts in terms of popularity from Adelaide to Zurich and beyond: Threesomes Sex Outdoors (e.g., on the...

Surprising Ways That Orgasms Can Benefit Your Relationship

28/07/2023
If you were to get a group of people together and ask them to describe an orgasm, you would probably get a variety of answers. However, if you're looking for a more scientific...

How to End a Casual Relationship Kindly

26/07/2023
Here's How to End a Casual Relationship Like a Genuinely Good Guy   Casual relationships are not meant to last forever. Yet few people know how to end one gracefully. When a...

Six Tips for Ending a "Sex Drought," According to Therapists

22/07/2023
Hint: It starts with a romantic date night. Throughout any relationship, sex ebbs and flows. Some months (or maybe even years), you get freaky on a near-daily basis, while others,...

Penis Size Really Matter, Does it Really Matter?

10/07/2023
Why are we so obsessed with penis size? Penis size has been a topic of interest and focus in pop culture for decades. This can relate back to things like inaccurate portrayals of s...

How to Make Pleasure a Priority: Strategies to Invite More Pleasure into Your Life Beyond the Bedroom

06/07/2023
Pleasure is Your Birthright; It’s Multidimensional. Unfortunately, our definitions of pleasure are often narrowly defined or shrouded in shame. We think of pleasure as merely...

Tips for Making Friends as an Adult

18/06/2023
The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life. But when we consider putting effort into our relationships, we tend to focus on intimate partnerships...

How Sexual Behaviour Has Changed Over the 100 Years

31/05/2023
Every year, I take a group of students to Amsterdam for a course on sex and culture. As part of this class, we visit the Sex Museum, which attracts hundreds of thousands of...

DILF Phenomenon: Celebrating Dads in All Their Glory

25/05/2023
Why did the DILF become an electrician? Because he knows how to turn everyone on. 😏 Now that we got the obligatory Dad joke out of the way, we can explore the...