Supporting Your Body and Mind During Menopausal Transitions Perimenopause is the time leading up to menopause when a person assigned female at birth stops having...
Female orgasm really nothing to moan about
13/10/2023
The Earth might not always move, but you can reliably expect “throbbing sensations” and “shuddering”. Sometimes, there is “trembling” and even – if it’s very good –...
What To Do When You Want Less Sex Than Your Partner
07/10/2023
The number one concern that prompts people to seek out sex therapy is what’s called a sexual desire discrepancy. This occurs when a large and persistent difference in libido...
How Does Alcohol Impact Sexual Function?
07/10/2023
Throughout history, alcohol has played a prominent role in human culture and social interactions. It serves as a means of relaxation, celebration, and stress relief for many...
Five Body Language Signs That Mean Someone Is Attracted to You, According to Therapists
06/10/2023
Putting yourself out there is not easy. When we admit our feelings toward another person, we open ourselves up to the possibility of rejection—and there are few more dreaded...
The Beginner's Guide to Talking Dirty in Bed
06/10/2023
Humans are verbal creatures—in relationships, we use our words to express our deepest emotions, desires, needs, and fantasies. Ever tried watching porn with the sound off? It just...
The 3 Most Commonly Asked Questions, According to a Sexologist
21/09/2023
Every day, I receive questions about sex and relationships from curious folks. While I cannot answer all of them, I’ve selected the most common themes to give you a glimpse into...
Scheduling Sex Is a Good Idea, Actually
12/09/2023
Most things in life require planning. Why should sex be any different? The first time I tried scheduling sex, I typed “SEX” in all caps into my husband's calendar, not...
What To Do When You Want More Sex Than Your Partner
08/09/2023
If you’ve ever been in a long-term romantic relationship, odds are you’ve found that you and your partner weren’t always on the same page about sex. There were probably times when ...
Eleven Foursome Sex Positions That Everyone Will Enjoy, According to Sex Experts
19/08/2023
THREESOMES MAY GET all the mainstream glory when it comes to group sex, but why not add one more person to the mix? Yes, we’re talking about foursomes—a double-the-fun...
Do You Want More Sex? Doing Your Share of the Chores Can Help
19/08/2023
A recent research study suggests relationship equity may increase women's sexual desire. If the thought of your partner taking out the trash unprompted gets you hot under the...
What Is a Safe Word, and How Do You Use One During Sex?
18/08/2023
Here's why - A simple "stop" might not cut it. Sex is hotter for everyone when all parties can relax knowing they'll stay inside their comfort zones. One way to...
Threesomes, Outdoor Sex, Domination, Oh My! Popular Fantasies, According to a Sexologist.
29/07/2023
In my work with couples around the world, three fantasies top the charts in terms of popularity from Adelaide to Zurich and beyond: Threesomes Sex Outdoors (e.g., on the...
Surprising Ways That Orgasms Can Benefit Your Relationship
28/07/2023
If you were to get a group of people together and ask them to describe an orgasm, you would probably get a variety of answers. However, if you're looking for a more scientific...
How to End a Casual Relationship Kindly
26/07/2023
Here's How to End a Casual Relationship Like a Genuinely Good Guy Casual relationships are not meant to last forever. Yet few people know how to end one gracefully. When a...
