Do you have a hard and fast rule about sex on the first date? I asked participants at a recent dating workshop about their rules and expectations regarding when to have sex with a...
How to Turn Your Partner Into a Generous Lover
10/06/2019
No one likes to feel like they're pulling all the weight in their relationship—especially in the bedroom. Use these tips from Jess to encourage your partner to be a...
The Complete History of Gay Pride
10/06/2019
Every June, people around the world gather to celebrate Gay Pride Month. What began as a form of political protest has grown to encompass an entire movement. Today, Gay Pride...
Toys for Two: The Complete Guide to Sex Toys for Couples
08/06/2019
There comes a time in every sexual relationship when it’s necessary to spice things up a bit in the bedroom. For a lot of people, this means experimenting with sex...
8 Ways To Tell Your Partner You Didn't Orgasm
07/06/2019
Many women have had a partner assume sex was finished without considering whether they had orgasmed. In fact, a recent YouGov poll found that men are more than twice as likely ...
20 Creative Masturbation Techniques You'll Want to Try This Instant
03/06/2019
Masturbation can be a great way to release stress and feel more relaxed. (Of course, it’s a lot easier to get things moving if you’re using some masturbation lube.)...
Body Positivity and Sex: How Loving Your Body Makes You A Better Lover
03/06/2019
Learning to love your body is good for your overall health. When you feel good about your body, you’re more likely to be happy in your relationship, report higher levels of...
3 Ways to be a Gentleman on the Streets and a Freak in the Sheets
02/06/2019
In today’s hookup culture, being a gentleman is an art. Here are three things you should do to ride that fine line between being a bad boy and a nice guy. 1. Keep your hygie...
A Lighter Shade of Grey: the Beginner's Guide to Kink
01/06/2019
Kink, like all things of beauty, lies in the eye of the beholder. From blindfolding your lover with a silk tie or visiting a dungeon for a group scene, a wide range of sex acts...
8 Things You Should Always Be Doing Before Intimacy
31/05/2019
For many people, switching from daily life into sexy mode is not always a simple transition. It can be difficult to let the day's stresses go and just focus on the fun....
This Is What Can Happen To Your Vagina When You Stop Having Sex
24/05/2019
For whatever reason, when you stop having sex, there are several things that can happen to your mind and body. From a mental perspective, you might go through some mood changes or...
10 Ways to Improve Sexual Performance
23/05/2019
Sex is supposed to be fun, relaxing and a way to get closer to someone you care about. When you suffer from sexual performance anxiety, however, an activity you’re supposed...
The 9 Most Common Myths Sex Therapists Hear
21/05/2019
Andrew Zaeh for Bustle Few of us learn much about sex in school or from our families, so instead, we grow up taking in a bunch of myths about sex either from porn, from...
The Ultimate Guide to Organic Lubes
19/05/2019
Organic lube is here – but we’ve found that many people don’t understand exactly what organic lube is, or why they should (or shouldn’t!) be using...
7 Questions To Ask Each Other Before Getting Married To Lower Your Risk Of Divorce
17/05/2019
7 Questions To Ask Each Other Before Getting Married To Lower Your Risk Of Divorce It's no secret that relationships are complicated (and nonetheless confusing). And...
