Relationships

5 Reasons Women Date Younger Men: Four Cougars Share Their Stories

22/06/2019
These stories from four women who found love with younger men will make you rethink your stereotypes. No longer just a reference to a wild beast, over the past two decades, the...

When Should I Say "I Love You" For The Very First Time?

21/06/2019
One of the most important lessons I’ve learned from working as a sexologist for the past ten years is that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to sex and relationships....

Why It's Okay to Have Sex on Your First Date

14/06/2019
Do you have a hard and fast rule about sex on the first date? I asked participants at a recent dating workshop about their rules and expectations regarding when to have sex with a...

How to Turn Your Partner Into a Generous Lover

10/06/2019
No one likes to feel like they're pulling all the weight in their relationship—especially in the bedroom. Use these tips from  Jess to encourage your partner to be a...

8 Ways To Tell Your Partner You Didn't Orgasm

07/06/2019
Many women have had a partner assume sex was finished without considering whether they had orgasmed. In fact, a recent YouGov poll found that men are more than twice as likely ...

Body Positivity and Sex: How Loving Your Body Makes You A Better Lover

03/06/2019
Learning to love your body is good for your overall health. When you feel good about your body, you’re more likely to be happy in your relationship, report higher levels of...

3 Ways to be a Gentleman on the Streets and a Freak in the Sheets

02/06/2019
In today’s hookup culture, being a gentleman is an art. Here are three things you should do to ride that fine line between being a bad boy and a nice guy. 1. Keep your hygie...

8 Things You Should Always Be Doing Before Intimacy

31/05/2019
For many people, switching from daily life into sexy mode is not always a simple transition. It can be difficult to let the day's stresses go and just focus on the fun....

This Is What Can Happen To Your Vagina When You Stop Having Sex

24/05/2019
For whatever reason, when you stop having sex, there are several things that can happen to your mind and body. From a mental perspective, you might go through some mood changes or...

The 9 Most Common Myths Sex Therapists Hear

21/05/2019
Andrew Zaeh for Bustle Few of us learn much about sex in school or from our families, so instead, we grow up taking in a bunch of myths about sex either from porn, from...

7 Questions To Ask Each Other Before Getting Married To Lower Your Risk Of Divorce

17/05/2019
7 Questions To Ask Each Other Before Getting Married To Lower Your Risk Of Divorce It's no secret that relationships are complicated (and nonetheless confusing). And...

10 Guidelines for Kinkier Sex

14/05/2019
Kinky sex, like all sex, has the potential to produce rapturous rewards, but also carries a host of considerable risks. Thus, it is important to take precautions to ensure your...

Why Do Cheaters Do It?

13/05/2019
Have you been cheated on? Constantly afraid you might be? Jess explains why people who cheat do what they do. We don’t know exactly how many people cheat, but research...

Why 50+ Can Be Your Real Sexual Prime

12/05/2019
Many women start to put the brakes on sex after menopause. But getting hot and heavy in your 50’s can be even better than it was in your 20’s. The next time...

To some degree, we’re all a shade of autosexual’: What it means to be attracted to yourself

10/05/2019
Ghia Vitale was seven years old when she first realized she was sexually attracted to herself. “By my third year in college, I saw myself as in a relationship with mys...