New research shows it’s the woman with the higher libido more often than we think, but that there is a way to turn down sex without harming your union. “I’m...
Everything You Know About Sex Is Wrong
13/08/2021
True equality begins in the bedroom. If you’ve landed on this site, hopefully it’s because, like me, you’ve noticed there’s something fundamentally wrong with the way we...
What We Could Have Learned in Sex Education
01/08/2021
If you went to a Catholic all-girls high school as I did, you probably didn’t learn anything about sex in school. If you had conservative parents as I did, you also likely didn’t l...
21 Expert Tips on How To Do a Striptease
30/07/2021
Are you curious about the art of undressing, but unsure how to do a striptease yourself? Well, you’re in the right place. Welcome to becoming the ultimate seducer! We’ve spoken...
Here Are Some Tips for Your First Time Having Anal Sex
29/07/2021
It is often said that you never forget your first time, but that rarely refers to your first time having anal sex. Perhaps that is because for far too long, anal sex h...
I’m 26 – Why Is My Sex Drive So Low?
23/07/2021
Questions about what’s normal when it comes to sex are super common — I’d say, like, 90% of the time, when someone asks me a sex-related question, they’re really asking, “Am I...
Science Says These Are the Best Songs To Have Sex To
16/07/2021
One of the upsides of sleeping with men who flip their records in the middle of sex (one of the only upsides) is that I know plenty of good songs to have sex to. They’ve...
Light BDSM & Bondage Play Beginner’s Guide
14/07/2021
What comes to mind when you think of BDSM? Whips, chains, dog collars, and name-calling? Those can certainly apply, though there is far more to the scene than those...
7 Ways for Men to Last a Lot Longer in Bed
09/07/2021
Irrespective of whether you’re new to the game and looking to improve your skills, or consider yourself a sex aficionado, it’s more than likely that at some point you will or you...
How to Have a Healthy Threesome
09/07/2021
If you're one of the 89 percent of people who *want* to have a threesome, but don't know where to start, this guide can help. Ménage à trois, threeway, triad, groupsex,...
The A-Spot What it is, how to find it, and why you should be stimulating it.
07/07/2021
Yes. You know the saying, “that hits the spot”? There’s a good chance the sex gods were thinking about one spot in particular when they created that phrase: the A-spot. Yes,...
31 Days of Pleasure Challenge
01/07/2021
Welcome to the most pleasurable 31 days of your life. If you are up for the challenge, we have curated an incredible series of spectacularly sexual tasks for you to try over the co...
Oral Sex is Sex: Over 20 Oral Sex Tips to Make It the Ultimate Main Event
26/06/2021
Oral sex is sex. It’s not an alternative. It’s not “sex-lite.” It need not be relegated to foreplay. For many of us, oral sex is the main event and ultimate indulgence. If you’re...
6 Different Oral Sex Positions Every Vulva-Owner Should Experience, According to a Sexologist
25/06/2021
For some vulva-owners, oral sex functions mostly as an A+ sexual appetizer. For others, it’s the dessert you treat yourself to because you didn’t really enjoy the dinner enough to...
Normalise Using Lube: Why Your GYN Wants You to Talk About Lube Every Chance You Get!
23/06/2021
I have to be honest – I’m not sure how or why using lube became taboo or difficult to talk about. But it is something that comes up time and time again with my patients, and...
